Intimacy vs Isolation

Dear Dearest YOU,
I am writing this with freestyle you taught me the other days.Your brithday is coming so I wish you happy ,good health and beauty forever.
Do you know I 've been learning diligently Putonghua (Mandarin)?As a chinese but I still need to pay extra effort to learn that ,which sounds so silly right ?Now, I am striving for life and for my family.I have to work 4days per week and 3days for school. May this be exactly what I want most.By the way,my english teacher in university suck as I mentioned you are the best I 'd ever seen before.The teacher reminds me how sweet,warm,,cute you are......In fact, I don't know whether you want to see this spam or not.What I know is I remembered what you had said
"To plead for myself rather than plead for others"You are right: "Birds of a feather flock together".
Hey my phoenix,good night ,please cheer up. :)

20 light years away from Earth lives possiblility

A team of planet hunters has announced the discovery of an Earth-sized planet (three times our mass) orbiting nearby star Gliese 581 at a distance that places it squarely in the middle of the star's 'habitable zone', where liquid water could exist on the planet's surface.

The most interesting of the two new planets announced is Gliese 581g, with a mass just over three times that of the Earth and an orbital period of just under 37 days.

Its mass indicates that it is probably a rocky planet with a definite surface and that it has enough gravity to hold on to an atmosphere.

The surface gravity would be about the same or slightly higher than Earth's, so that a person could easily walk upright on the planet

I hope to use my power to iron out things

It's my 21st Birthday ;I went through with my family and the people I care.Sadly,without my lover, a vitally important person,the person I would do whatever for ,even show her the world.

Translation department admitted me to give me a chance ,but there are tones of barriers I need to get through.At this moment,I just want to share my feelings to you were you hear listening to my heart and laying on my bed.I was so fucking stupid I shouldn't let you go to a place where I can hardly reach.You know what?

I remember since you 've been gone,I 'd been being skinny because of crying and crying until you told me you would like me to become fatter ,It changed. I know why you said that is because you want me to be healthier.Guess what?I am now 63kg. I committed it then I did it.I wonder you will worry me ,think of me .....now ?I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

It's your favour ..

I REMEMBER...
Everyday I think of you and anything related to you..
not because of boring but love you.

I KNOW I KNOW .

I 've been thinking of you like the time we hang out in the park;the time we met;the time we have fun......It was not until you showed up in my life did I know what a beautiful love it should be,It was not until you made me smile did I know how gorgeous life it could be,It was not you.......did I know how vital you are to me.There is nothing more important than you ;there is no one better than you;there is none opportunity to come across another soul mate in one's life time.I know now,I LOVE YOU out of MY IMAGINATION.Hoping this is not the end of saying ,I also hope this is not the last time of saying "I LOVE YOU",BOO. Like some soap er characters said It means hoping against hope if any words repeated three times. I know I know I know,I shall be realistic.

Please take care ...

Though I can't take care of you or give you a warm hug,I worries about you.
I suggest you less go to the terrace for fear not to get a cold.
PLEASE PLEASE! take care by yourself.
Hope you will recover soon!! DAMN weather abhors me !

I MISS YOU..VERY MUCH..

I MISS YOU

Report of process

Not only does the CLC reading paper very concerns me,the time managment as well.
I have no times to check my paper again ,which bother me most .Though the accuracy is kinda improved,the overall scores are terrible. ;( The coming exam will take place at 0800 TUEN MUM
on 26thMarth.I hope the situation will be better......

夫妻之道

方式一：寬容她的失誤。人都難免會做些傻事甚至是錯事，失誤更是難免的事，作為男人當然應該要寬容大度些，做做聾子或是瞎子也是心疼女人的一種方式。對愛的女人盯著太緊，容不得她的錯誤甚至失誤，這不但顯得男人小氣，更在無形中對女人心裡施加了壓力，讓她處在緊張和自責之中，我想這不是男人想看到的。寬容是男人的風度，寬容但不縱容，愛在寬容裡，愛她就給她一個寬鬆的生活軟環境。

方式二：傾聽她的嘮叨。女人話多些，愛嘮叨，這並不是什麼缺點，只是女性的心理特點所決定的。女人有事就愛說出來，特別是在自已愛的男人面前，女人會完全敞開來，啥事都會說，不說出來心裡憋得慌。男人如果真愛自已的女人，就不該“堵”住她的嘴，做個好聽眾吧，學會耐心傾聽，這不只是禮貌，而是真正心疼她的表現。

方式三：分擔她的家務。心疼當然不能只是嘴裡說說或是做做表面工作，除了精神上的心疼，在體力和具體的生活細節中，也應切切實實為自已愛的女人分擔一些具體的事務，包括家務事、雜事瑣事和教育帶小孩這些事。只會坐在那裡瞎指揮，嘴裡說是心疼，可對她的辛苦卻視而不見，連掃把倒了都不知扶一下，甚至電話都要等她來接，啥事都要等她來做，這就有點太不務實了，也不是真心心疼她。

方式四：重視她的家人。心疼自已愛的人當然應該是全方位的，心疼她卻輕視和瞧不起她的家人，這會傷了她的心，也決不是真心心疼她。女人的心永遠放不下家人，無論她遠嫁何方，家人父母永遠是她心中的牽掛。瞧不起她的家人就是瞧不起她，重視她的家人就是重視她，心疼她當然要重視她的家人。

方式五：理解她的難處。每個人都會有各自的難處和苦衷，有的可以言說出來，有的卻只能放在心裡。男人有男人的難處，女人有女人的苦衷，男人女人應該相互理解，而作為相愛的人和夫妻當然更應如此。可現實的情況是，男人多自認為男人才難，這顯然是想當然的大男子主義想法。男人在外奔波忙工作事業有難處，女人在家忙家務其實有更多的難處。大事難做，小事雜事更難做，所謂做大容易做小難。心疼她，就應理解她的難處，將心比心，多些體諒。